Ships retreat/forbid attack

[Ramokthan]

I am so annoyed right now...
I have several ships guarding some frequently attacked Stations of other factions, but once in a while the protected stations get hit and turn hostile... and now the fun begins because my stupid pilots start attacking them and of course is wiping them out entirely.

There is not even a proper methot to tell them to retreat, nor just forbid attacking them at all, even if they turn red for a short while.... most of the time it takes some hours for me to notice they go crazy killing my allies just bc they turned red for some accidental hits.

I need to have something like a forbid list where i can tell them to never attack members of that factions so they have a CHANCE to turn back blue again and not wiping them out instead of protecting them.