Hub manager wrote: The other starts all seem to make me an enemy to someone or another.
might be a moot point though,i just tried navigating the user interface
and stopped playing
Seriously, watch some tutorials on Youtube and give the game some time. There is a generally steep learning curve at first, but if you like this type of game at all, stick with it. The rewards are worth it!
This is a fantastic game imo, but you will not learn it in an hour. To be honest I would have been very surprised if your very first start did go well.
I usually go with the Humble Merchant start like you did. When I got to the point in the tutorial where you have to start shooting, I just ignore the rest of it and went on my way, started trading some energy cells and now I am almost 700 hours in.
It would be a loss to walk away without even trying to learn the UI. It's big and can be daunting, but with some time you can learn it too!