Mightysword wrote: ↑Thu, 18. May 23, 19:37
Taramafor wrote: ↑Thu, 18. May 23, 17:45
At what point have they ever admitted to anything other then the xenon? "I made the xenon" only goes so far. It isn't a free pass to get away with everything else. The argons aren't just going to stand for being pushed around. Or the other races for that matter.
It's a lot like how people can make the mistake of isolating themselves. A mistake I made once even. What happens is that you stick with yourself. You believe the lies you tell yourself. That's basically what happened with the terrains. So they're very paranoid and insecure.
I know you're trying to draw comparison, but sometime there is something that just can't be compared. My dad got sent to concentration camp in his late 20, spent 7 years in it before getting out. And despite a lot of healing and nurturing afterward (he's in the 70 now), according to everyone who knew him (including my mom who married him for 40 years) say he has never become the same man. I got into a car accident a few years back, broke some bone, and the way it went, I was maybe half a second away for the hit to become T-bone collision, which probably would have killed or disabled me for life. Since then, I have -not extreme- but mild anxiety whenever I cross an intersection with no signal, and I don' think this anxiety will ever go a way. I don't know if it's PTSD.
The point is, there are thing people can resolve and move on, there are things that they don't. Accidentally hurting someone and accidentally killing someone is not the samething. The trauma of almost getting killed but escape unharmed (like miss getting hit by a train by a hair breath) and the trauma of suffer gravious injury and survive is not the samething. The kind of "thing" the Terran had faced ... I don't think it's comparable to even the worst mistake you had made in your life.
The first Xenon war was as close to an existence threat as it could be for the Terran. 800 years maybe a long time, but I doubt all that time were simply spent healing. The level of devastation mean Earth probably spent at least a couple hundred years facing hardship and rebuild the ruin of their civilization, a period that no doubt left a very heavy imprint on their civilization. Now of course, in an ideal world we would hope everyone are strong enough to shrug off the past and find the strength to move on, but can we fault them for not being able to? This is like telling a combat vet who suffers PTSD "your war was over decade ago, stop being so paranoid and move on". In the case of the Terran, they're also like a PTSD victim who was isolated and had no support, dealing with nothing but the echo of their own fear, is it really their fault they turned out that way?
"Move on"? You brought this up. That's NOT moving on. if you bring this up and say "move on" then that's a contradiction. Look at the bigger picture here.
Of course your dad isn't the same. That's my point here. I'm not the same person I was either. The terrains have yet to adapt. The paranid had to adapt more. They were forced too. They had more time around the argon. They had to learn to find a way to coexist. The holy order is still struggling there of course.
If you kill someone by accident then you're an IDIOT. If you kill someone with intent then at least you intended to do it and know what you're dong. If you're going to do something like create the xenon then don't be an idiot about it. My point is the terrains are idiots. Blinded by their pride and hubris. They were before and they STILL are. Maybe not as bad as before, but they're hardly in a stiuation where they're actually diplomatic. Don't make excuses to defend them and change the topic. Is this the situation or not? Start with that.
Isolation causes bad diplomacy. Fact.
Let's take the Ant going in the mines for example. Why didn't the terrains just go "Let's let them know that"? Surely they would have turned their ship around at that point. Unless they want to blow themselves up. So the terrains want to prevent an incident but THEN proceed to try and turn the ant an argon on each other? I call bull. The terrains quite clearly are operating on grudges and resentment. Again, at least the Argon aren't pretending.
Would you trust somoene that goes "Open fire quickly" instead of "Let's talk it out more?" Something the terrains repeatedly do over and over and over again. The argons aren't that bad. Not even the split or paranid are that bad. The argons at least limit it to once big incident. All these "little fires" are building up. Even the split will at least go "We want your slaves" right in your face. Noticed how the honest Zyroth are in a stronger position while the cowardly free families will have xenon on all sides as they fight their own split? That could be the terrains if they're not careful. If you make targets of everyone, at some point you target yourself. Rebellion. It takes a while for it to happen, but it's what happens when empires go "Target everything". History proves it over and over.
Fact: The terrains were isolated. This is a fact.
Fact: They do give in to fear and paranoia. Wihch fuels their "lash outs". This is a fact.
Fact: They make targets at the first opportunity. Probably because they're so focused on the xenon. They "keep seeing a threat" and it becomes a bad habit. They quite literary live every day looking over their shoulder.
They've been isolated in their home system, remember. Did you play X3? The player had to reconnect the gates to earth. If you're not aware, the split WERE in contact with argon before they got cut off in X4. Which is why they're a bit less paranoid (still very warlike though. They're like Klingons in Star Trek basically).
I see the same pattern with many people and factions. History shows it in wars as well. Different reasons. Same old song and dance. Nothing you say changes the fact that the terrains are operating from pride and fear. The fear actually creates that pride. It blinds them to the fact that they could be finding other solutions. Because they're that focused on the xenon. They're trying to find "quick solutions" instead of slowing down. They act in haste with the ant going into the mines and the teledi at the gate. Only fools rush in blind. If you make threats that quickly, if you don't even think "Let that transport know about the mines" then that just proves it. It's bad diplomacy. Period. It's because they haven't been in touch with others enough. Fact. The split and paranid have had more time to adjust. Despite the past misunderstandings. The terrains aren't at that point yet.
The universe is bigger then your dad. Or me. The comprasion fits. I know psychology. I actually get people to face their fears often. If all you do is live under a rock then you don't understand what you fear. The terrains choose to be stupid. That's their mistake.